Don’t ever think that having a tinder threesome is only the privilege of single wingers who are living a swinging lifestyle. No matter what your relationship status is, if you want to have fun by trying something new and stepping out of your comfort zone, you have no reason to not to do it.
However, as someone who has more than ten years of experience of managing tinder for threesome and tinder for couples, I often receive this kind of questions like “I have been married for over than 5 years, is it even possible for me to have a threesome and find a three way partner?”
So here is the thing: you are married and you want to experience something new in your life. Should you do it? The answer is no doubt: Do it since you only live once. It is also undeniable to admit that having a fetlife, trying out threesome dating, bisexual dating, kinkd dating as well as polyamorous dating can be a lot more complicated than you are single. But it is not impossible. Here are some useful and effective tips for you, as a married man or married woman, to put your ideas into actions.
Figure out what your partner is thinking about.
Everyone differs form one to another, so does their thought. Since it is a relatively more sensitive issue to address, it will be pretty risky for you to bring it up to your partner by saying “Hey honey, do you want to have a threesome?” Instead, asking some subtle questions first to figure out what your partner is thinking will be a strongly recommended way. For example, you can ask your husband or wife: “Hey, I have just seen the movie of John Wolf, the famous actor, having a hot threesome with two hot Brazilian models!” Then pay attention to your partner’s reaction. If they think it is fun or interesting, then you can move to step two.
Communicate with your partner.
Having a threesome, practicing wide sharing or wife threesome is not something you can do after getting the approval of your partner, it requires a tremendous amount of time and energy to plan a perfect threesome in order to avoid all the potential problems you might encounter. For instance, jealousy issue is one of the most common obstacle couples who live a swinging lifestyle might encounter. Thus set ground rules with your partner such as it is not allowed to go on dates privately with the three way partner will save you from struggling from all the drama.
Put yourself out there.
Don’t hold yourself back simply because you are married to another person. The whole point of having a threesome is to make the most out of our lives and have a tremendous amount of fun. Thus you should get lose and let it be, which is what matters the most.
